I need help. I know my parents need me but I want to live in my own place.?
WOULD YOU MOVE OUT?? What else could I do?? I went through alot of rough times with my family and ex. i don’t want to be with anyone that cannot understand me at all, use me or hurt me to keep me or for their self glorification.
Don’t think I’m selfish… i can still help parents with distance. Sure they will have an empty room but eventually I do have to move out and this is only a early start. I will move in the same city so they can call if they are need of something.
See my brother kicked all of us out and I took full responsability of my parents they are 65 and 69 years of age. I would stay with them and help but my dad doesnt understand that my brother wants to do nothing relating to their health or living condition and I am doing everything for them. Dad still wants to visit his son and thats finewith me if his son is willing to take responsability of parents. I dont want to be used. I feel sorry for my mother because she cannot drive and she is with dad. I cannot waste my life or my aim of wanting to study. I have alot of potential in me and when I am depressed when dad tells me abt having good relation with son while using me for their needs and when my ex hurts me and not seeing any good that I did for him. I just want to get away from it all. I want to stand on my two feet and make.
I went through alot in life:
I dont recall details: child molestation
Moved to America: had to spent a day on the road, lived in apartment w/out furniture… where the bugs bit all over my body. Lost a year of education because my aunty kicked our family out befre establish, got into a relationship where I was physically abused on occations and used for money. I lost myself was with men and locked myself up and stayed out of trouble came to my sense to who I am. I wasn’t ready for a relationship and wanted to just date. Yet my friends fron ny comes along he kisses me and I tell him I’m not ready for this. I want the friendship. I got into a relationship w/him where I was controlled, emotionally abused, accused of looking at men, broken myself esteem to how I dress, where I look, how I smile, then he tells me he has sex addiction on top of emotional abuse from his family. I wanted us to be together work it through because I know he has a good side..but he doesnt want me and drills the fault he sees into my head. ( I was broken), I was trying to center myself and then dad was diagnosed with caner, now he is recovering cancer free and his life span depends on his newly constructed bladder.
I want to call the hospitals and remove my phone # and put my brothers new cell phone # in. This is what Ive been workign on doing. Then help parents from side with groceries or something (IF NEEDED). I’m going to get brother involved with parents again. My dad obviously have good relationship with him…so ehy should i stand around and be used?
I DONT want anyone right now…. I just want to do good things forself and move forward. I hope the pain of missing my ex will just go away fast. I hate love. I dont ever want to fall in love.
Choosing a Daycare Center for your child that is both FUN and SAFE. 5 tips to relieve a first-time parent’s worries!
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Choosing a Daycare Center for your child that is both FUN and SAFE. 5 tips to relieve a first-time parent’s worries!
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When entrusting the local daycare center, nursery or playgroup with your precious child, it is understandable that parents may be concerned. A parent can be worried that their child will not receive the same love, care, and attention that they receive at home. A parent might also be concerned with the safety of the daycare’s play equipment and resting facilities.
Although it is normal to be nervous, with some tips in what to look out for when selecting a daycare center a parent can entrust their child in the daycare’s care without real reason for concern.
1. Hygiene –
There are usually many children who play, eat and sleep in the daycare center, for many hours a day. This can lead to the spreading of many germs. Especially as the children are usually too young to be able to practice proper hygiene and are unable to wash their hands with soap, on their own. A parent should inquire as to what the daycare’s cleanliness schedule is. Do they use disposable liners on the changing tables? Do they wash the children’s hands with soap before they eat? Do they disinfect the tables, chairs and toys periodically? These are important question to look out for when inspecting the center.
2. Separation Anxiety –
It is both normal and accepted for children to have a hard time being away from their parents for the first time. A parent understands that it is necessary and healthy for the child to develop independence. However, the parent does not want the child to cry for the six hours that he/she is left alone. Find out what their procedure is in helping the children “break-in” to the new schedule. Do they let the children cry? Do they have treats they provide? Do they call the parents for assistance?
3. Toy and Furniture Safety-
It is a parent’s primary concern that their child be safe and healthy at all times. While the child is away they spend many hours a day playing with toys. There are many toys that can be dangerous or hazardous for young children. A parent should inspect the play center to ensure that there are no toys with small pieces that can pose as a choking hazard and all corners should be rounded off or padded. There are many companies such as Jonti-craft who make all their toys and furniture kid-friendly. For example: Their hinges run straight down the doors so it can’t pinch fingers. There is also a company Children’s Factory who makes hundreds of soft play items and furniture to provide children with safe playing time.
4. Discipline –
The discipline policy of the daycare center might be a concern to a parent. No loving parent wants their child to be disciplined in a harsher manner than necessary. Although the child might be very well-behaved, situations might arise during the day that requires discipline. Find out what their policy is. Do they hit the children? Do they withhold privileges? Are the children afraid of the staff? Select a warm, caring facility that will discipline with love and not out of anger.
5. Curriculum –
All children should begin to receive their education from an early age. Even infants will develop physically and cognitively if given the appropriate toys. Find out if the center provides educational toys for the children that will benefit their growth and development. There are many toy manufacturers such as Melissa and Doug who make great quality toys that are specially designed to promote children’s development at all stages. The child should constantly be challenged to strive and grow with the toys, art supplies, books and puzzles that the center provides.
Of course, the parent should constantly communicate with the center to make sure their child is well-adjusted and happy, but with a bit of pre-planning you can feel confident as you wave goodbye to your child on their first day away from home.
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